Sometimes people are really mean and judgemental. It’s annoying, frustrating, and hurtful. For instance, the other day at work, when someone asked how old my husband and I are, they immediately said, “Oh, wow. So he never had time to spread his wild oats?!” Who are you?! Who are you to judge me and my marriage when we have only worked together twice and you know nothing about me and my life?! This is why I try very hard not to judge others when I have no clue what their motivation is. True, I sometimes often fail, but at least I try!